Mood:  chillin'

   Friendship between 2 parties means that each person must be agreeable with the way the other person is.

   It seems my ex might think that she friendship means something else as well. It seems that despite me firmly not liking a lot about the way she is, that friendship is possible.

   This is wrong on her part. She has done and continues to do disrespectful things to me. There is no time when any status will change until something is formally worked out between us. She has her reasons. I still have all the reasons I had back when we started marriage counseling. I have more reasons now. There is no status quo, there is no context for being friends. We both have our reasons.

   Yet it seems she would think that it's all over, she is right and that's all there is to it. WRONG.

   Until a day when / if we work things out between us, there can't be friendship.