Mood:  not sure

Hi Folks,

     Arggh, more confused than ever. I had been invited to my ex's house for my daughter's birthday party. Now my ex says her and her hubby would feel uncomfortable with me there. There would be "tension". I've been de-invited. Let's see, has their been tension when I've been over before for other parties, graduations? No. After this heartless move and on my way home my daughter asked if I was still coming to her party. I told her the truth and she was upset. I told her she could talk to her mom but I couldn't tell her how mean a person her mom is. 

     I'm sure you readers know about the ex and her hubby. They reserve the right to write bad about me on the internet, albeit anonymous. I've told them a long time ago it was disrespectful and rude. They stare back like deer in the headlights and say no it's not. Thoughts race through my head. Can these people not realize what they do is wrong in any way? They wash their hands in the bowl of denial and walk on. Then they have the nerve to wonder why they're perceived wrong. They just don't get it. As long as they keep their self righteous ( wrong ) opinion they'll most likely never be thought of as nice. A terrible catch 22.  I've no want to be with those guys but I have to when it comes to being with my kids I'll overlook them being near.

     If they or anyone they know read this, please help them see the light bulb of realization. If you can't say something nice don't say anything at all, on the net, in person, in a letter. Reserving the right to rag on people is a dark way to think. You can't be nice one way and bad another. The perception of bad will always persist.   

    Ok, down from the soap box, bye,

    TBB