LET NOT YOUR HEART BE BROKEN
Dr.Right Love's List- GET OUT OF UNACCEPTABLE SITUATIONS!
- Relationship still ACCEPTABLE? You MUST communicate DIFFERENCES, NEGOTIATE
mutually acceptable TOGETHER-LIVING arrangements, understandings, AGREEMENTS.- NEVER let the Sun set on a horrible quarrel, disagreement or fight! SETTLE IT and
RESTORE Harmony and Goodwill. DISMISS ALL Anger, then Talk it over, and SETTLE IT!- Define each other's Responsibilities, Obligations and Duties to each other and to the marriage.
BALANCE them for fairness and ACCEPTANCE. STICK TO the terms of AGREEMENT!- For ROMANCE to stay SWEET, give it a one-year CASH CUSHION. WORK ON YOUR FINANCES in such a way that you have one year of financial coverage in the Bank in its own separate, not to be touched, account.
- Let the basis of LOVE-MAKING and SEX be MUTUAL SATISFACTION and ENJOYMENT! NEVER for any consistent period allow one partner to become the sacrificial SHEEP who simply lies down and takes it.
- Understand that LOVE is more than 'a feeling you're feeling when you're feeling a feeling you never felt before! Love is mutual Caring, Sharing, Consideration, the Little Things that Mean A Lot, and no partner is more important than the other, since it takes two to tango, and both have the same spiritual and subconscious potential. If you're a female partner, and your male counterpart thinks that he is IT, or GOD or whatever, just let him try digging a hole in the backyard and see where that will get him!!! Some men( some women, too,) like being the Bull in the proverbial China Shop. Sure way to throw a spanner in the works of the relationship. Messes up things.
- CHILDREN must be Planned and seen as TIES THAT BIND THE LOVE BETWEEN TWO MATES. Unplanned Pregnancies ONE AFTER THE OTHER can turn a woman into a BEAST OF BURDEN,and the Marriage into Drudgery, Frayed Nerves, Anger, and Broken Relations and Hearts, eventually.
LIVE HAPPILY, LOVINGLY CONSIDER EACH OTHER,and THE CHILDREN, TOO!. - Relationship still ACCEPTABLE? You MUST communicate DIFFERENCES, NEGOTIATE
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Following is a letter which we were ASKED to place on our website,
Dear Dr. RightLove, I am not a violent person or I would have killed my husband a long time Here is an excerpt of our reply: Dear El.G., We can see that you value your own soul and the welfare of your children
in the hope that it would help others in a similar predicament:
ago and preferred to go to jail or even the electric chair than go through the hell I go
through daily.
I can sum it up by simply saying that I am brutalized and harassed
"morning, noon and night" unless I comply with his wishes and his wishes only.
Mine don't count, although when I married him, he led me to believe they did.
Sgnd. El.G.
more than the deadly action this husband is driving you to take. Here are three
courses of action to be taken simultaneously:(i) Contact a spousal abusal center
at once and confidentially talk with them. Behave to your husband as though
nothing has changed; give him no suspicions that you are about to queer his brutal
behavior. (ii)Get some economical expert help to plant such effectively hidden
cameras or wires in your home that your husband would never dream they existed,
AND HAVE THE FACT OF ABUSE DOCUMENTED.
(iii)Pray this daily just as you wake and when you are falling asleep:
"Lord, El Chai, Eloah, Elohim,the One, true, Mighty and Everlasting God,
Heavenly Father,Keep me as the apple of thine eye, hide me under the shadow
of thy wings; I,El.G. joy in thy strength, O Lord, and in thy salvation how
greatly do I rejoice! Thou hast given me my heart's desire and has not withheld
the request of my lips; thou hast made me most blessed forever, Thou hast made
me exceeding glad with Thy countenance; Thy Goodness and Thy Mercy follow
me all the days of my life. I give praise and thanks to Thee."
This prayer is ALWAYS answered.