hI EVERYONE. MY HUSBAND AND i ARE TRYING TO BUY OUR FIRST HOME. wE HAVE FOUR CHILDREN, A TWELVE YEAR OLD GIRL, AND SEVEN, FIVE AND TWO YEAR OLD BOYS. wE ARE HARD WORKING, BUT DON'T MAKE MILLIONS. wE DON'T HAVE MONEY FOR A DOWN PAYMENT, BUT CAN DEFINITELY MAKE MORTGAGE PAYMENTS IF WE CAN GET FINANCED. wE HAVE BEEN WORKING WITH A LENDER WHO HAS NOT BEEN STRAIGHTFORWARD WITH US. fIRST HE TOLD US WE WERE PRE-APPROVED FOR 155,000 AND TO GO HOME SHOPPING, WHICH WE DID. nOW HE SEEMS TO BE SAYING IT WILL BE DIFFICULT AFTER WE HAVE FOUND A HOME. i HAVE STARTED TO CONTACT ANOTHER LENDER FOR ANOTHER OPINION, BUT i AM SO AFRAID WE WILL LOSE THIS HOUSE. DOES ANYONE HAVE A SUGGESTION?