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Rubbing Your Lover the Right Way
by Tamar Love
Be clear on one thing: a back rub, while divine, is NOT a sensual massage. A back rub is powerful, short and effective at ridding your body of tension, aches and pains. Sensual massage is long, languorous and erotic, and involves a great deal of nudity and intimate touching. You give your mom a back rub. You give your lover a sensual massage.
If you've never given one of these wonderfully erotic massages, never fear. Our simple, step-by-step instructions will leave you feeling and acting like an experienced sensual masseuse or masseur.
Make sure you have the following items on hand:
Candles and/or incense
Clean flat sheet
Bubble Massge Bars
Before You Begin
Before you start rubbing your honey, take a moment to set the mood:
Lock the door and turn off your cell phone. You want quiet.
Prepare your massage surface, whether it's a professional massage table or a bed. Provide rolled towels for a neck and knee rest.
Spread an old (but clean!) flat sheet over your massage surface.
Illuminate the room with sensual lighting. Turn off glaring overhead lights and drape sheer fabric over floor lamps. Light candles.
Make sure the room smells good: use scented candles, incense or room freshener.
Keep cool water nearby for quick hydration.
Put a couple of CDs into the changer so you don't have to stop and put on a new CD.
Both of you should take a shower, shave and trim your nails.
Talk to your partner about your upcoming experience. Make sure he or she understands the difference between traditional and sensual massage -- if she's expecting the former, an erotic massage might be quite unwelcome!
Start by connecting with your partner. This will vary from couple to couple, so follow your instincts. You might kiss his or her face, lightly touch his or her body, or gaze into one another's eyes. When you both feel connected, invite your partner to lie face down on the massage table or bed, and arrange pillows and towels to his or her liking.
Begin by lightly stroking your partner's body with the tips of your fingers. Start with the back, and then move to the shoulders, arms, buttocks, thighs and calves. Remember to use only light, teasing strokes. When you sense that your partner is relaxed (you might have to ask), you are ready to progress to massage.
Place Bubble Massage bar into the palm of your hand, and rub your hands together lightly. When the bar is warm and evenly distributed, begin massaging your partner's back with long, deep strokes.
At the beginning, communicate frequently with your partner to determine if the strokes are too hard or too soft. Keep your hands in contact with your partner at all times, take your time with each rhythmic-yet-sensitive stroke, and proceed from long, gliding strokes to shorter, deeper strokes.
Use your body weight rather than your arm strength for deep strokes; during gliding strokes, keep your knees slightly bent and fluid, and don't lean over the table.
Once you have developed a rhythm that pleases both of you, move on to the shoulders and arms, and progress to the legs and feet, brushing the buttocks as you move up and down your partner's body.
Ask your partner to turn over. Begin massaging the chest, arms and hands. Pay special attention to your female partner's chest: don't be too invasive at this stage, but don't ignore them. Lightly stroke the top and undersides.
Glide down to the legs, brushing the skin on your way down. After finishing the fronts of the legs and feet, glide back up and slowly brush over the center. Tease your partner by brushing his or her inner thighs near the center, and very lightly touching the center region.
Allow the erotic energy to build until it seems like a natural time to start shifting the focus to more explicitly sensual activities.
Hold Each Other
After the massaging is finished and you are both relaxed, remember to spend some time together before falling asleep or running out the door. You have both just shared an extremely intimate experience. Hold each other, talk to each other, and enjoy the intimacy as long as you can. Be positive about the experience, especially if it was your first time. Remember, practice makes perfect!
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