As we search for our Indian identity, the process is grueling.  Because records before 1978 were sparse, if any at all, we do not know where to start.  I was adopted out in 1951 at the age of two weeks. I was not told I was adopted (let alone Indian) until I was 37 years old.  I thought my search was hopeless, but I found several ways to help with searching, the best way being the Indiannet, establish long ago before the written word or the Internet!

Going to powwows and gatherings has been the best way for searchers to find their people. Even if the tribe you are searching for is not from your area.  Dancers and people come all over to attend powwows. The bigger the powwow the better.  I suggest going to the MC at a powwow and asking him to announce that if there are any (you name the tribe) in attendance to please meet (your name) at (fry bread booth or ?).  Stand below the MC site so people can see you.  This method has worked several times.  A person from or  who knows tribal contacts of the tribe you had mentioned will find you.  Then its up to you to go from there. In one case, the person asking for help had a fancy dancer seek her out at the powwow and he turned out to be her cousin.  She has since found her whole family!

 I know what you are going through, or will go through as you seek your Indianness.  Emotionally and mentally it is a journey I would not have missed for the world.  I was reunited with my five brothers and sisters, my mother, grandmother, aunties and uncles beyond count.  I was received in the family with open arms, ceremonies, honoring and love.  It still continues to be an adventure.