Before chronic and indo Before SEGA or Super
Nintendo Way back . . .
I'm talkin' 'bout hide and go seek at dusk.
Sittin' on the porch, hot bread and butter.
The ice cream man, Simon Says, Kick the
Can, Red light, Green light.
Lunch Boxes with a Thermos . . . that broke,...
Chocolate milk, Lunch tickets, Penny candy from the corner store, Hopscotch,
butterscotch, skates with keys, Jacks, kickball, dodgeball, Dixie peach and
Bonnie Doon socks, Mother May I? Hula Hoops and Sunflower Seeds, Whist and
Old Maid and Crazy Eights Wax lips and mustaches, Mary Janes, saddle shoes
and Coke bottles with the names of cities on the bottom, Running through the
sprinkler, circle pins, bobby pins, Mickey Mouse Club, Crusader Rabbit, Rocky
& Bullwinkle, Fran & Ollie, Spin & Marty . . . all in black & white. Catchin'
lightning bugs in a jar, Playin slingshot.
When around the corner seemed far away,
And going downtown seemed like going somewhere.
Bedtime, climbing trees, making forts .
. . Coaster made from orange crates and an old skate, Backyard Shows, Lemonade
stands, Cops and Robbers, Cowboys and Indians, Sittin' on the curb, Staring
at clouds, Jumpin' down the steps, Jumping on the bed.
Pillow fights, "company", Ribbon candy,
angel hair on the Christmas tree, Mary Martin as "Peter Pan", Jackie Gleason
as "the poor soul", White gloves, walking to church, walking to the library
Being tickled to death , Running till you were out of breath, Laughing so
hard that your stomach hurt, Being tired from playin' . . . Remember that?
Not steppin' on a crack . . . or you'll
break your mother's back . . . paper chains at Christmas, silhouettes of Lincoln
and Washington . . the smell of paste, buck bags and Evening in Paris ...
Crowding around in a circle for the 'after school fight', then running when
the teacher came.
What about the girl that had the big bubbly
handwriting . . . who dotted her "i's" with hearts?? Bob parties, slam books,
The Stroll, popcorn balls, sock hops & hay rides. Remember when . . . When
there were two types of sneakers for girls and boys (Keds & PF Flyer) and
the only time you wore them at school, was for "gym". . . with those great
blue and white gym uniforms.
When it took five minutes for the TV to
warm up.
When nearly everyone's Mom was at home when
the kids got home from school.
When nobody owned a purebred dog.
When a quarter was a decent allowance,
and another quarter a huge bonus.
When you'd reach into a muddy gutter for
a penny.
When girls neither dated nor kissed until
late high school, if then.
When your Mom wore nylons that came in two
pieces.
When all of your male teachers wore neckties
and female teachers had their hair done, everyday and wore high heels.
When you got your windshield cleaned, oil
checked, and gas pumped, without asking, for free, every time. And, you didn't
pay for air. And, you got trading stamps to boot!
When laundry detergent had free glasses,
dishes or towels hidden inside the box.
When any parent could discipline any kid,
or feed him or use him to carry groceries, and nobody, not even the kid, thought
a thing of it. When pizza wasn't delivered . . . and chicken was . . .
When it was considered a great privilege
to be taken out to dinner at a real restaurant with your parents.
When they threatened to keep kids back
a grade if they failed . . . and did! When the worst thing you could do at
school was smoke in the bathrooms, flunk a test or chew gum. And the prom
was in the gym and you danced to an orchestra, and all the girls wore pastel
gowns and the boys wore dinner jackets and paid for dinner.
When a '57 Chevy was everyone's dream car
. . . to cruise the strip, peel out, lay rubber or watch submarine races,
and people went steady and girls wore a class ring with an inch of wrapped
dental floss coated with pastel frost nail polish so it would fit her finger.
And no one ever asked where the car keys were 'cause they were always in the
car, in the ignition and the doors were never locked. And you got in big trouble
if you accidentally locked the doors at home. No one ever had a key. And lying
on your back on the grass with your friends and saying things like "That cloud
looks like a . . ." And playing baseball on the empty corner lot with no adults
to help kids with the rules of the game. Then . . . baseball was not a psychological
group learning experience, it was a game.
Remember when stuff from the market came
without safety caps and hermetic seals 'cause no one had yet tried to poison
a perfect stranger. And . . . with all our progress . . . don't you just wish
. . . just once. . . you could slip back in time and savor the slower pace
. . . and share it with the children of the 80's and 90's . . .
So send this on to someone who can still
remember Nancy Drew, The Hardy Boys, Trixie Belden, Laurel & Hardy, Howdy
Doody and The Peanut Gallery ... The Lone Ranger, The Shadow knows . . .,
Nellie Belle, Roy and Dale, Trigger and Buttermilk . . . as well as the sound
of a rotary mower on Saturday morning, and summers filled with bike rides,
treasure hunts, baseball games, bowling and visits to the local public pool
. . . Eating Kool-aid powder with sugar.
When being sent to the principal's office
was nothing compared to the fate that awaited a misbehaving student at home.
Basically, we were in fear for our lives but it wasn't because of drive by
shootings, drugs, gangs, etc.
Our parents and grandparents were a much
bigger threat! But we all survived because their love was greater than the
threat.