When Tony Campolo was in Chattanooga, Tennessee to speak at the annual "Gathering of Men" breakfast, the noted sociologist told a story that begs to be repeated. Here it is...

      It seems that there was a lady named Jean Thompson and when she stood in front of her fifth-grade class on the very first day of school in the fall, she told the children a lie. Like most teachers, she looked at her pupils and said that she loved them all the same, that she would treat them all alike. And that was impossible because there in front of her, slumped in his seat on the third row, was a boy named Teddy Stoddard. Mrs. Thompson had watched Teddy the year before and noticed he didn't play well with the other children, that his clothes were unkempt and that he constantly needed a bath. Add to it the fact Teddy was unpleasant.

      It got to the point during the first few months that she would actually take delight in marking his papers with a broad red pen, making bold 'X's and then marking the 'F' at the top of the paper biggest of all. Because Teddy was a sullen little boy, nobody else seemed to enjoy him, either.

      Now at the school where Mrs. Thompson taught, she was required to review each child's records and because of things, put Teddy's off until the last. But, when she opened his file, she was in for a surprise. His first-grade teacher wrote, "Teddy is a bright, inquisitive child with a ready laugh. He does work neatly and has good manners. He is a joy to be around." His second-grade teacher wrote, "Teddy is an excellent student and is well-liked by his classmates-but he is troubled because his mother has a terminal illness and life at home must be a struggle." His third-grade teacher wrote, "Teddy continues to work hard but his mother's death has been hard on him. He tries to do his best but his father doesn't show much interest and his home life will soon affect him if some steps aren't taken." Teddy's fourth-grade teacher wrote, "Teddy is withdrawn and doesn't show much interest in school. He doesn't have many friends and sometimes sleeps in class. He is tardy and could become a problem."

      By now Mrs. Thompson realized the problem but Christmas was coming fast. It was all she could do, with the school play and all, until the day before the holidays began and she was suddenly forced to focus on Teddy Stoddard on that last day before the vacation would begin. Her children brought her presents, all in gay ribbon and bright paper, except for Teddy's, which was clumsily wrapped in the heavy, brown paper of a scissored grocery bag. Mrs. Thompson took pains to open it in the middle of the other presents and some of the children started to laugh when she found a rhinestone bracelet, with some of the stones missing, and a bottle that was one-quarter full of cologne. She stifled the laughter when she exclaimed how pretty the bracelet was, putting it on, and she dabbed some of the perfume behind the other wrist. At the end of the day, as the other children joyously raced from the room, Teddy Stoddard stayed behind, just long enough to say, "Mrs. Thompson, today you smelled just like my mom used to."

      As soon as Teddy left, Mrs. Thompson knelt at her desk and there, after the last day of school before Christmas, she cried for at least an hour. On that very day, she quit teaching reading and writing and speaking. Instead, she began to teach children. And Jean Thompson paid particular attention to one they all called "Teddy".

      As she worked with him, his mind seemed to come alive. The more she encouraged him, the faster he responded and, on days that there would be an important test Mrs. Thompson would remember that cologne. By the end of the year he had become one of the smartest children in the class and well, he had also become the "pet" of the teacher who had once vowed to love all of her children exactly the same.

      A year later she found a note under her door, from Teddy, telling her that of all the teachers he'd had in elementary school, she was his favorite. Six years went by before she got another note from Teddy. And then he wrote that he had finished high school, third in his class, and she was still his favorite teacher of all time. Four years after that, she got another letter, saying that while things had been tough at times, that he'd stayed in school, had stuck with it, and would graduate from college with the highest of honors. He assured Mrs. Thompson she was still his favorite teacher. Then four more years passed and yet another letter came. This time he explained that after he got his bachelor's degree, he decided to go a little further. The letter explained that she was still his favorite teacher but that now his name was a little longer. And the letter was signed, "Theodore F. Stoddard, M.D."

      The story doesn't end there. You see, there was yet another letter that Spring. Teddy said that he'd met this girl and was to be married. He explained that his father had died a couple of years ago and he was wondering if Mrs. Thompson might agree to sit in the pew usually reserved for the mother of the groom.

      You'll have to decide yourself whether or not she wore that bracelet, the one with several rhinestones missing. But, I bet on that special day, Jean Thompson smelled just like... well, just like she smelled many years before on the last day of school before the Christmas Holidays began.

      Footnote from Bill.....Boy, this hits pretty hard, doesn't it? If we were honest, all of us would probably admit that we have all tried to sit away from the noisy, bratty children at "that table". Haven't we all thought or said "If that was MY child, it wouldn't be pitchin' a fit...I'd teach him better than that". Now, I profess to the world that I love children...all shapes, sizes, & colors. But I have to admit that I occasionally do play favorites...I don't like to be around all of my children's friends, or to have my children influenced by "those kids". Maybe what those kids need is to be influenced by ME, and by the Lord who I represent! I don't know what goes on in those children's homes...how they are treated, talked to, or even if they have someone to tell them every day that they are loved! My kids have a lot of friends spend the night. I make it a point to hug the boys, & to give the girls a kiss on the head at bedtime. I tell them that EVERYONE needs a little lovin' at bedtime. I'm going to make sure that I show love, patience, and acceptance to ALL the kids I come in contact with....no matter how they look, smell, or act....after all, isn't that the same attitude Jesus took to the cross as He looked into the future at each of us?

      From BonMoor, via Lola Conley's Christian Devotional. To subscribe, contact Lola at LolaConley@aol.com It's a blessing!

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