[05.13.02]
Asia chronicles 3: back in nyc, miss Asia already... i cant even begin to say how nice it is over there. mind you that it is humid an hot there, but its just nice there. didnt shop as much as i wanted too, HK peeps have such funky (aka fobby) styles there. mostly i walked in, scanned the racks and then walked right out of the stores... too much ruffles and lace going on.
~can't even begin to write down all the things that occured over the last three weeks, but it definately felt like i was away for a long while, not used to the daily grind of life again...
[05.14.02]
meaningless sayings: yesterday some co-workers and I were discussing how people in the working environment are really fake. like when you answer the phone on a Monday, generally people ask "how was your weekend?"; your general reply would be "oh, it was great!"; they would then continue on with "thats good...oh, yeh, i need this..., or we need too... (something work related). basically howfake is that. i dont think people even pay attention to what is said, its just a formality to ask about the well-being of the person on the other line, whether or not you care at all...what if people were really honest about what happened on their weekends, what if you said something like "oh, my dog died this weekend... or I had a heart attack", i think by automatic response, people just go"oh great", and continue to ask you for what they need and for why they called you.
I think this is funny, only cuz it was a topic of conversation yesterday, and today while i was on line buying my tea a conversation occurred with a customer and the tea guy
tea guy: "how was your weekend?"
lady: "not great, my mother-in-law passed away this weekend, its pretty sad.."
tea guy: "oh, oki...ummm, anything else with that coffee?"
i dunno if he just didnt hear, or if he just didnt want to have to make conversation with her, but its only goes to prove my point about the "fakeness" of people in the real world.
[05.17.02]
huh?: not that I like to discriminate, but why is it that there are people on AsianAvenue that aren`t even Asian? oki, i understand that non-Asian men have the Asian fetish thing.. but becoming a member of AA to get Asian chicks? thats pretty daym sad...actually, i find it all too funny... comments such as "hey momma" "you look fine" "you want a meet a fine _____ *his ethnicity* man" arent going to cut it. seriously i think most of the girls on AA prefer a good ASIAN man. and if they prefer non-asians, im pretty sure they would be joining some other site like "Non-AsianAvenue".
but seriously in my opinion, people think AA is for mackin. sure if you see it that way, then to every person their own right? for me its just something to do when im bored at work. sorry to break all the hearts of those people hoping to hook-up on AA. and if you seriously want to expand your exposure, there is AOL, that is the original place for internet hook-ups. and AOL has a larger community of people, while AA is a smaller community of just Asian (or at least it used to be).
[05.21.02]
Too Cute: check out the link for the cutest anime...
http://www.geocities.co.jp/Milkyway-Lynx/9043/c-song.htm
[05.23.02]
Fashion Police: warmer season = less clothes... isnt it great?! actually no it isn`t! (in certain cases). its warmer now, so people have the excuse to wear less, but PLEASE PLEASE have some standards. i dont think some women look in the mirrors in the morning while they are getting dressed, cuz if they did, i doubt they would walk in the streets with what they have on. women with large pot-bellies or flabby abs shouldnt be wearing tight-a.ss shirts or crop tops. its pretty nasty to see it all hanging out and juggling. i think most women after 30 shouldnt be wearing little tops that teenage girls wear, unless you still have a killer bod. anywaz.. besides a mirror, there is still the friend test, always get your friend to look over what you have on and comment on it, i.e. you look too fat; its not flattering; its too much going on or whateva they have to say, hopefully you would be able to take their advice and change your clothes. well maybe you dont care what others think of you in your outfit, but for the love of mankind, (for it does leave a mental scar on those that witness it) please dont scare little children with your nastiness or inability to dress well.
[05.24.02]
social behavior:
parties: there is this unwritten/unspoken rule of behavior.
notice: many people are "social" smokers and drinkers, meaning they do this only in social settings. i feel that people have been brainwashed into their social behaviors. i discussed this topic with Mistress on Tuesday night, theni challenged her to try out my scenario and see what happens.
SCENARIO: Party- standing alone near a semi-populated area but not at the bar or in the middle of the dance floor. no talking on cell phone, with no drink or cigarette in hand, no talking to anyone she already knows, no leaning against walls, body language must not seem hostile (i.e. no folding arms, or hands on hips)
THEORIES or POSSIBLE OUTCOMES:
-Mistress wont be able to last for even one minute cuz the conditioning of social behavior would cause her to not want to be by herself or without a vice (i.e. drink or cigarette)
-Mistress might get picked up by a guy, because shes standing all alone
-Mistress might be able to last through the experiment and prove me wrong
LENGTH OF EXPERIMENT: 10 minutes
ACTUAL DURATION OF EXPERIMENT: she lasted only 10-20 seconds
REACTIONS:
-How did you feel? "like a pledge...except i never had to do what they did"
-What do others think of you there all by yourself? *random guy* "this person must be a loser", just kidding.. it was said by a guy friend
-Why didn`t you stay there any longer (cuz it wasnt even half a minute)? "cuz it felt weird"
CONCLUSION: so in CaveBabe X`s professional psycho-babble opinion...(Disclaimer: those unable to handle the pressures of social obligations should not try this scenario, it should only be done by professionals =P ) for those brave enough, please let me know the results of your experiment. otherwise... it will be conclusive that people act in accordance to certain social behaviors due to brainwashing (i.e. the drink, cigarettes or company) in order to be cool or for the desire to fit in.
[05.28.02]
summer fun has just begun: had a great weekend, went to two BBQs, chilled out with my girlies for Mistress` bday... chilled out just enjoying the weather... summer heat is ready to beat!! hee hee
[05.29.02]
Twilight Zone: eery music started to play in my ears last night when the phone rang around 11pm.. i pick up and here begins our story as i re-tell the nightmare ... *names have been changed
ME: hello?
FB: Hey, it`s FB* (let`s just call him... `fat bastard`)... i have a car now, let`s go chill.
ME: HUH? Who are you??
FB: You remember... i`m blah blah`s* cousin
ME: oh... (while a chill runs up my spine and a flashbacks of 4 years ago come to mind)
FB: yeh, so you wanna go chill sometime? i`ve got a car now... hey i think your cell phone is ringing...
ME: mmm.. hold on.. (brief pause while i answer my cell) ummm... yeh i have a cell
FB: can i get your cell number?
ME: Hellz no! i dun think so! wait a minute... how do you have my house number?
FB: remember i got it a long time ago
ME: doh! (smack myself in the forehead for not changing my house number)
FB: well you want my cell number?
ME: ummm... i guess if i have too...
FB: it`s 646.***-****
ME: yeh ive got it (pretend to write it down) aiites, laterz gotta go...
FB: yeh so lets go chill aiites, i`ve got a car now...
ME: uh huh... umm... yeh... whateva.... aiites... laterz! (hang up)
and so that concludes the actual event... i go bac to talking to my man and tell him that he`d never guess who called me. i finally tell him the person was his friend`s cousin. while he thinks its mad funny, im getting this skin crawling, sickening feeling in my stomach. dont get me wrong, i`m not a mean person, but this guy is unbelievably annoying, extremely persistent, overweight and has pretty bad personal hygene, to basically sum it up, he`s a total loser aka the name `fat bastard`. i shudder to recollect him in any of my thoughts. i wonder why he still has my number after 4 years. since i havent even spoken to him, after everyone dissed his a.ss 4 years ago. man...how do you tell someone to leave you alone without totally sounding like a biatch?
[05.30.02]
time to celebrate!: Just wanted to wish my girlie Mistress a Happy 23rd Birthday!
side note: i sometimes wonder if people find what i write about on my AA page offensive or just entertaining. i dont write my daily list of chores and events cuz thats boring to read, instead i think my personal thoughts convey more. like who i am, how a feel, my opinions and such (even if my thoughts are biatchy) =)
[05.31.02]
butts, cherries, etc: who ever said cigarettes could kill is right! here`s my story.. chillin with my girls last night.. we`re standing at the bar throwing back some drinks. Mistress wanted to ash out her cigarette, not finding any ash tray around, we tell her to throw it on the floor.. either she has bad aim, or she was just being malicious =), but the ciggie butt ends up on my toes. *instant flash of searing pain* no major damage,just a slight shock.thank goodness she didnt try to stomp out the ciggie butt too. Later on.. we`re standing around at the bar again (gosh we`re alcoholics) when she leans in for a group hug, next thing i kno.. *instant searing pain again* but this time its on my arm from the cherry of the ciggie. sadly, it did leave a scar, but at least it doesnt hurt.. or it doesnt hurt yet due to the fact that im under painkillers right now, tryin to knock away this killer hangover. today i find out that PlayBoy inadvertantly burned Mistress twice last night too.
so whats the moral of this story? be careful little children, there are lethal people out there with flaming butts and cherries
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