I should be doing my taxes
It's 9:45. Bobby is in his room reading and Kenneth has walked to the Grove to read at Barnes and Noble. Had I a book to read, I'm sure I'd be doing the same. Had I a guitar to play, I'm sure my mind would be much clearer, but having only my laptop on a weeknight, a rare occasion by itself, I'm left to write. I could be filling out my taxes and getting my refund that much sooner so that it might gain that little extra interest, but instead I'll let the government reap the benefits. I could be cleaning my room and improving the environment in which I live, but that would require slightly more inspiration than it would take for me to keep typing. The thought process is simple really. My room is dirty. I should clean it. Why should I clean it when I'm leaving in three weeks anyway? Because it's always more comfortable to be in a clean room. But why would I want to be more comfortable. I'm leaving in three weeks. Discomfort will make it easier to leave. Is ADD contagious? If so, I think Jessi gave it to me, along with untidiness. Wow. My room looks like a shit hole. I guess the defining difference between my room here and my room in NYC is that I had more time to clean it in NY. The difference between my room here and my room in Tampa, is that I spent a lot more time in my room in Tampa. I'll haven't a TV in my room in Chicago so I'm sure my room will be cleaner. I guess this is what I get for listening to David Gray. Nothing puts me at a greater state of indifference than the listening to David Gray, not because his music is anything special or because I enjoy it that much, but more because he sings like it just doesn't matter...kind of like the way I seem to be writing tonight.
I know I had a point, but it seems almost trivial now. I think I had many points. I was going to start by talking about my trip to Vegas a few weeks ago, but what would I say? I went to Vegas...woo. It was my first trip there. Originally I was supposed to go to San Francisco with Jessi, but then Bobby made plans for us all to go to Vegas. I wasn't really pressured into going, but I figured I could go to San Fran with Jessi another time. In hindsight, even though I still haven't gone to San Fran, I made the right decision. The Friday night before the Saturday that we were supposed to leave for Vegas, Bobby and I went to the Well for a few drinks. We came home with an obvious buzz. It wasn't long after that Bobby kept drinking and became drunk exclaiming, "LET'S GO TO VEGAS NOW!!!" Ken said OK, I said OK, and we left at 9pm for Vegas. We arrived at 2:30am and quickly lost over $800 between the three of us. By 8am we were able to check into our hotel room pass out. When we awoke, we washed, rinsed, and repeated. This time I kept my money in my wallet. That night Bobby and I went out after Ken threw a tantrum about my feet being on the bed. We had a blast. The following day we started things off right with the Champagne brunch. 10am and 3 bottles of champagne later, we were feeling pretty good. We drank all day to keep the feeling going. Bobby drank too much and threw up all over the hotel room floor. We got some interesting video footage of his antics pre vomit. Needless to say only Ken and I were able to go out that night. Again we had a blast and returned to the hotel for an early morning departure. Overall, I think the Vegas trip brought us all closer together. Ken explained to me that the beef he had with me previously was all based on the fact that I never invited him out with Jessi and I when we went out with her friends. I explained to him that he would haven't hated her friends and most of the places that we went. We're on decent terms now.
On another note, as of last night, I've officially accomplished every aspiration that I possibly could haven't hoped for while in Hollywood. A few weeks ago I went to a screening of Constantine. The screening was at the Warner Bros. Studios and took place at the exact same time as the Hollywood Premiere. I would haven't loved to be at the actual premiere, but this was exciting as well. I drove to the lot and gave my name to security. Rob, a guy at work, had arranged for me to meet his boyfriend (yes boyfriend) a casting agent, when I got there. The screening was for all of the Warner Bros. staff that wasn't invited to the premiere. On the way out, I got lost and ended up driving through all these different sets before I found a security guard and was pointed in the right direction. Until last night I thought that was the closest I'd get to "Hollywood." About a week ago someone at work asked us if we would like to go to one of the screenings for Guess Who. Naturally, Bobby, Ken, and I were very interested. We selected the day that we would like to go and it was set. This was to be one of the test screenings that gaged how the movie would do upon release. We later received another email asking us if we would rather go to the Hollywood Premiere. I think that's a STUPID question. So last night, that fantasy came true. We went to the official Hollywood Premiere of Guess Who. I spoke with Chris Rock as well as the lead actress from Guess Who. I saw Ashton Kutcher, Bernie Mac, Bruce Willis, Demi Moore, the girl from Ice Princess, Wilmer Valderama (would haven't preferred to see his ex Lindsay Lohan though), and Anthony Kedis the lead singer of the Red Hot Chili Peppers. I saw others whos names I haven't forgotten, but I got to walk on the red carpet, stand in line for popcorn with the celebs (popcorn is free at the premieres), and Bobby got to pee next to Chris Rock in the bathroom haha. The theatre (Grauman's Chinese) was AMAZING. The two biggest differences with seeing a premiere were, of course, seeing the actress on screen and realizing that she was sitting just a few rows away, and the clapping that occurred during the credits. Every name drew applause. It was a true reminder that we were in Hollywood. Afterwords I started thinking to myself...how many people get to go to the Hollywood premiere of a major motion picture? I'd venture to say few. I also haven't a phone number to call if I ever want to go to another one. I'd say that's a good connection to haven't, especially if I ever want to impress a girl :o)
Speaking of girls...I can't help but think that I'm starting to get pretty good at getting what I wish for. Davina and I are dating. We both know that I'm leaving in a few weeks, but we're having fun anyway. She really likes me and I really like her. It's SO incredibly refreshing. She's a workaholic, she doesn't smoke, shes responsible and very attractive. She also has a British accent :o) So as far as my girl check list, she checks off the British accent, Indian girl, and Hong Kong native boxes. Oh she's filthy stinking rich too. She's invited me to visit her in Hong Kong when she goes back and says that I can stay in one of her family's hotels. She herself is staying at her relatives' vacant two-bedroom condo across from Neiman Marcus in Beverly Hills. It's ridiculous. The only problem is that she really keeps her guard up because I'm leaving. She's going to get hurt and she knows it. I'm going to hurt her and I know it. I also know that I won't get hurt. I'm immune at this point. My level if indifference has reached a point that scares me. I almost feel like I've become incapable of feeling. I think someday I'll learn how to feel again, but not anytime soon. Maybe it's more that I won't let myself feel anything. Who knows?
On a lighter note, I've gotten some good news about my potential jobs at the end of the program. It looks like I will end up in NYC and it looks like I'll be making at least the minimum that I set for myself to remain with the company and living in NYC. Still, if they offer me the same amount of money to live in LA, I may haven't a very difficult decision on my hands. I really love it out here. I really can't put my finger on why. I do love the weather. I don't miss winter. I love the fact that I can drive an hour in any direction and be somewhere else that is completely spectacular. The houses here are amazing. I'd much rather live in LA and be rich than live in Manhattan and be rich. I'm actually starting to get an image of myself in the future. I don't like thinking about the future, but I am starting to see a path forming before me. It could be a mirage and I certainly won't know for sure until the summer, but it still gives me more piece of mind than I've had in over a year. I'm not looking forward to Chicago, but I'm also not dreading it. My indifference has spread to my feelings about the move. I'll take Chicago in stride. I'll enjoy myself where and when I can and make the most of it overall, just like I've done in NYC, Tampa, and LA. If I can make it through the next four months, I think I'll be able to say that I officially made it. The light at the end of the tunnel is growing brighter. I don't think it's a train. If it is, I'm indifferent.