There is nothing wrong with having or wanting to have a relationship.
I applaud those having the courage to do so.
The truth is I can?t do it. Don?t expect to change me.

Last week, when Sze Yong came back to school to share his internship
experience, he mentioned that some people actually got ?detached? at
the end of attachment. This does not surprise me at all.

I am no longer happy to subject myself to the complexity and uncertainty
of boy-girl relationships. Sick and tired of them. Whenever I see a pouting
girlfriend and her whiny boyfriend on the MRT, I really feel like going up and
giving the guy a hard punch and the girl a tight slap. I hate the sight of guys
groveling and pleading for their girlfriend?s forgiveness. It makes me sick.
Are you still a man if you do this? (Believe me, I have seen this a lot of times)

Of course the punching slapping scenario would not happen. Even if it did, I
Would be the one who would end up looking ridiculous. After getting my flying
punch and stinging slap, the love-struck pair will look at me with utter incredulity, turn to
each other and say with heartrending emotion: ?Darling, ignore that siao char bor. It?s all
my fault, I got you into this. Are you all right?? *sob sob and they finger each
other?s face lovingly and embrace (pukeXinfinity)

I concur that many relationships form without you realizing. But, I do know when I do not want to form a relationship with someone. I know it and I know it to the core.
Sometimes, men simply don?t get it. Most of my female friends agree that we have a predisposition towards being nice and friendly. Perhaps it is the innate motherliness that
some of us have. To want to nurture, protect and be kind to just about anything and everything. Even little animals and plants and ants. So guys out there, please take note
of the harsh reality. On one hand, you are fortunate to enjoy kindness and lovingness bestowed by almost any female, down from the little three year old child up to the 80
year old grandma. Just do not make the dangerous error of thinking that kindness equals
to weakness, or even worse, interest.

MOST OF THE TIME (note that I used the politically correct word ?most?), women just want to be friends. Surprisingly, I can go to a great length for a friend, but I am unable to love. I am able to make and uphold a promise to a friend, but I am unable to promise one
special person my unwavering, undivided attention and love.

That is all I want to say. I am one radical, stubborn extremist on this matter, but this is after all my own personal blog. I guess this is one of the very few places where I have the liberty to say what I want. And this is truly how I feel at the moment, so nothing will change whether I say it or not

PS: I am having an intense and stressful affair with my PI right now. any other attempts to distract me from the single-minded pursuit of a
smooth and peaceful six months will almost certainly drive me to murder ;p