About 1 a.m., April 3, 2002
Hi sweetie,
I am so stiff and sore I am surprised I am actually attempting to write but the days have been so jam packed and action filled, I'll just forget them all if I don't write it all down!
Well, how to summarize yesterday? Frustrating at first and then very pleasant. I had to go to that Tempus Resorts presentation at the Palms. Someone told me that it would be really nice, bring the kids, because they give you this wonderful big breakfast and then show you around and try to talk you into buying a time share.
So instead of having breakfast, I took the kids to Walgreens to pick up a few things we needed, like laundry bags, trash bags ... and I needed feminine napkins. Yeah, it's back all right and with a vengeance. It just reminds me about you telling me that your mom called them mouse beds or something when she referred to them. That was just so hilarious.
Anyway, from there we went to the Palms and, of course, I got lost. Still, we got to the place before 10:30 and it was *packed*! There was no parking at the place we were supposed to be feted and we would have to walk to the reception. I didn't mind it so much.
We walked with a woman and her daughter. She'd been to many of these things and knew the ropes. In fact she deliberately goes to these things to get the perks. I thought she must be out of her mind. I actually would have preferred a Comfort Inn vacation. Wasn't too thrilled with hoity toity Radisson ... there's no complimentary coffee, no Continental breakfast, they nickel and dime you to death.
Anyway I walked in with the kids and this woman and her daughter. Heidi already had a puss on because she didn't realize that we would be tied up here for 90 minutes. She started to protest and whine she'd be bored. The woman said SHE would be bored too but she was willing to put up with the boredom to get the vacation perks.
Anyway, we get to this building and it is a mob scene, absolutely packed! I asked one lady where the breakfast buffet was and she indicated another busy room. We went in there and there was a room full of, well, must have been hundreds of people sitting at tables obviously talking to sales representatives and yakking away. It was noisy and crowded and I could see Heidi becoming tense right away.
Billy went to get on the line. Heidi and Kristin were with me and we were back several people. The lady who'd walked in with me tapped my elbow and said we'd have to register first and then we could eat. What a PAIN! So I pulled Billy out of the line and he was angry and we went into this other room to register. Well THAT was packed, too. The woman saw the looks on the kids faces and said I should let them go eat, who would care? I sent them back and Billy rolled his eyes. Heidi refused to go. She was red with suppressed fury.
We sat down in this packed waiting room. There were lots of people there, lots of kids running around or crying, and some guy making balloon animals to try and entertain the kids. The parents had expressions of weary resignation on their faces. Well, I'd never experienced one of these things before, felt like a cow being herded around a pen and felt very resentful. That company lost a sale right there.
Heidi was sick of waiting and I was too so I sent her to get Billy and Kristin. While she was gone, my sales rep came calling for me. She was an Italian, pleasant woman but hard to understand with all the noise and commotion going on. We went into the buffet room and I expressed my displeasure with all of this.
The woman said sympathetically, "I know, but we got to do it this way because everyday we see three or four hundred people."
Mooooooooo.
Heidi and I got some food. Heidi was still very pissed and I was annoyed when there wasn't any coffee, no milk, no orange juice ... I got water to have with my breakfast. No rolls, no butter, no fresh fruit ... how aggravating!
The sales lady went into her spiel. I'd heard this many times. Do you remember when you were trained to sell Vorwerk vacuums? First you have the customer figure out how much they're spending now. You figure out how much they're going to spend over a lifetime. Then they list all the benefits of having a timeshare, etc etc. Yeah yeah yeah. So I stopped her finally and said she didn't need to go through all that with me, explained I am a widow of less than a year and will not make any financial decisions without showing the paperwork to my financial advisor and the woman looks at me and says, "I know, I know, but I have to do this. It's my job, and when I am finished with the presentation then you decide if this is for you or not."
Exasperated, I repeated that I was not going to make any decisions today and that I needed to give the information to Steve. She said yes, she was telling me the information and I said, no, I mean, a contract that tells how much a price might be, how the payments are made, and so on. She said she couldn't do that yet, she had to go through everything in a certain manner.
I was getting mad now. The kids were trying to help me by being whiny and fighting. Heidi, though, was definitely uncomfortable. I said to the woman again, look, you're wasting my time and yours. She said I just want you all to be happy, and I said, "Well, I'm not. In fact I am getting very angry with you!"
"Well, what should we do?" she asked.
"I want to leave. Don't you have anything you can give me for the financial advisor?"
She said no and that she couldn't give me the park tickets if I didn't listen to the whole presentation. I told her I didn't care. It was already noon and we'd been there 90 minutes and that was enough.
We decided to go tell the manager, who was out in the lobby managing the new people streaming in. She was on the phone and the rep went to talk to her. She said, "Are you at a table? I'll come out to you."
And I said, uh, no I don't think so. The manager snippily informed me that she had four people ahead of me. "I'll wait," I snapped. She beckoned to her rep to come back here so they could talk. The two of them disappeared behind a wall and I said to the kids, "let's go."
After we got back to the hotel, I decided to use our free tickets for Water Mania. Heidi didn't want to go and so I took Billy and Kristin. They had a wonderful time! I sat down and relaxed, read for a while, and then called Teddy. We played a round of telephone tag and finally got to talk ... just as Billy and Kristin were getting out of the water and saying they were hungry. Figures...
Teddy said he was so glad to hear from me. I enjoyed talking to him and it seems like he's moving a little faster than I might like ... but it's my fault too because I've been teasing him. Not fair, I know, and I realize my behavior is partly because I miss you so desperately. The other part is that Teddy is a nice, attractive guy and we do have a lot in common.
Ah well. The girls and I went out for dinner at Ruby Tuesday's. Billy claimed he was too full still from breakfast. We had a nice friendly grandfatherly type named Bob ... a teacher, I believe, retired ... anyway we enjoyed our meal very much. Afterwards, I took the kids down to the pool.
It's a beautiful pool, Rich, with a sort of waterfall, and as I sat there looking at it I began to tear up. I remember when we went to the Poconos and we'd get into the pool or the hot tub and kiss and make out and tease and pet and then rush back to the hotel room so horny we could barely get in the door before we were tearing each other's clothes off. Kristin came out of the pool just then and asked what was wrong. I said I missed you and she said he'll always be right here, and she pointed to my head and my heart.
Yes. It still hurts...
Today we went to Island Adventures, which is the newer of Universal Studio's parks. I got some tickets from a woman that works here. These tickets are SO expensive! I paid $160 for these four tickets ... and later on I paid $200 for hopper tickets for Disney. I am really burning through the money but what the hell?
I was really upset with Heidi today. I was in the bathroom and I heard the beginnings of an altercation. Suddenly Kristin was screaming she was hurt. I got out of the bathroom as quick as I could. Kristin wanted to sit down and Heidi didn't want her to sit in "her" chair. Kristin and Billy say that Heidi shoved Kristin, who tripped and fell against the bed. Heidi said she just stood up and Kristin lost her balance.
Kristin had a scrape and a huge red mark on her back. I was just so upset about it ... why does Heidi have to be so hateful and mean? Heidi was angry with me because she feels I'm not listening to her but what justification is there for this? All Kristin wanted to do was sit down. I'm thinking Heidi's really got a more serious emotional problem that I'd like to think.
It was raining most of the morning. It was about noon before we were all calmed down enough to go to Adventure Island ... and I got lost. It figures, right? Sweetheart, it's about 1:30 and I'm really sleepy so I'm going to continue this tomorrow. It did end up being a very nice day, thank God.
Love you,
Me