ok so i'm really behind on studying/hw so i shouldn't be here but this'll be a quicky
sometimes i wonder how people make it through life as far as they do being who they are...
what i mean is...they don't even have the decent courtesy to make it through life & for others will their rudeness they can't even keep strangers from getting pissed at them...so how do they make it work for them? how do they even begin to interact w/ those around them?
whether it be like angry drivers or people that notice you in front of them but would rather walk you over than move slightly to the left or right...you know simple things like that...
i GUESS you could call it aggressiveness
but i just call it common sense...
but i've always thought about this & never written it down...so yea
sometimes it's in the way they talk too...
i had a good friend in hs...she was the funniest person ever but she never meant to be because she could jsut be so offensive & not realize it...granted the people she was offensive to weren't that great of people so i would just laugh...she was super super smart & talented in many areas too
eg, we were working on a project together w/ a person i will call jane...so we were at jane's house & we saw all these plaques on the wall & we asked jane what they were...she said ooh well i submitted some poetry & writing & i got these plaques...my friend looked at them for a bit & was like OOOOOh i know why these look familiar! i saw it on 60 minutes & they said how they're just companies that take your money & give you an "award" & how it was all fraud & they were busting them....jane just stood there...she didn't know what to say & i think she eventually said she needed to get something & walked off...i was holding in the laughter....& my friend had no idea she just offended her hahahha....she was so freaking funny...jane was definitely someone that wanted to be an overachiever & very very arrogant about it....she was never mean to me but i knew that most people hated her...
it was funny to "hit" her in the most direct way possible
anyways...the point was...that sometimes you just know that w/out that sense of awareness these people are gonna end up no where...it doesn't matter how smart you are...
if you can't fit into your environment you're as good as dead
ok back to the books....