so sometimes i wonder how much of the cyrano de bergerac-esque actions i carry out
i mean granted cyrano was still after selfish results...while that isn't necessarily the case for me...i don't actually like like the people that my friends pursue but i wonder how much of my advice & the things i tell them to say make their relationship what it is today...
what i mean is sometimes i tell people to say things whether it's serious or playful & cute...& it has just the effect i predict when i give the advice but it is played off as that of their significant other...
& i wonder how often they think upon it & say aww he/she is so sweet & cute...when in reality it was my contribution
i know for example (i will not use names for fear of the people that read this that don't tell me) i gave advice to a friend for valentine's day a few years back & the significant other still to this day talks about it & about how sweet it was & how it was so romantic & what not...
it just makes me wonder what part of that disappears when i enter a relationship myself? i guess it is always different when you are the outsider...there are no emotions involved? but see that's what i don't get...there has to be emotion to have thought of the advice/idea in the first place...(maybe it's like the movie hitch...i haven't seen but from the commercials that's what i gather it's about)
why can i seem to figure out what to keep another couple's relationship alive? but yet i'm still single...not that i'm complaining (though sometimes i am) ok...well i know for one that the guys in my life have been flawed...(not that i've been little miss perfect but basically they've all been asses to a certain extent)
i apologize for all this mushy gushy valentine's day-ish thinking crap....i think i've been watching too much tv...all this sappy stuff...