sex is very mysterious and complex. there is much to be discovered and learn whenever anything involves sexuality. but when should people start having sex? before or after marriage? casual or commited? for physical pleasure or for emotional satisfaction? basically, i feel that it depends on what type of person u r and what yr looking for in a relationship. *if yr even looking for a relationship*
i often wonder whether god intended for us to have sex before marriage. *i believe in god so this may be biased in some peep's opinions* there are so many std's and chances of getting pregnant that maybe god it trying to inform us that sex is supposed to be during marriage and not before. yet, then why are we given sexual feelings and the ability to have sex at ages as young as ten?
sex is a way to communicate through actions rather than words. often, words are not enough to describe yr feelings and so u may express yr feelings thru yr actions. sex is like that, expressing yrself. the way u act is what u r judged on. judging people sux but everyone does it, whether they like it or not. so the way u present yrself is how people will judge u. when u choose to have sex, yr choosing to express yrself to another person sexually *i feel like a health teacher or sumptin haha* so basically, yr gonna get judged and labelled if u choose to have sex. and u gotta accept that. i know i have. sometimes it fuckin sux but it's a decision and u gotta face it.
is sex right? that's a personal opinion. and that's my opinion--that it's a personal decision. i don't care if someone sleeps around with different guys or girls *who knows*, but i never would. i don't care if someone decides to wait for marriage or that *extra special* someone. perhaps i may use their decisions to form an opinion about them, but what right do i have to say that it's right or wrong? i like to think i'm open minded and so i can accept how someone chooses to use their sexuality. straight, bi, or gay? who knows! but does it matter? to me, hell no. to u, perhaps maybe. sex is sex, and it's a decision. u can only lose yr virginity once. don't throw it away, give it away. thank ya. xoxo.