I should start by saying these are My PERSONAL views, it does not mean I am right, or that others are wrong, this is just the way I feel about the life we live and the way I see it.
Viking-Raiders Beliefs
Age: 43
Height: 6’1”
Weight: 250lbs
I am the son (the youngest of 5 brothers) of a man who fought through the whole of the Second World War, (from 1939 to 1945) came home and started his own business, that is still running and successful today, I had an excellent upbringing with love from both mother and father, time always given when
needed, with a strong man as a guide, a man whom I try to emulate even now, 28 years after his death.I am a lifetime biker, and ride a Harley, I have been a fighter, a business man, trucker, courier, and always a Dom.
I believe that Domination is something that is within, from the earliest age, not something that can be learned or acquired, I know that there are some who will ‘train’ to be a Dom by subbing for a while, I have never understood this. I have always been Dominant, always the one that made the decisions, pushed
the issues, drove the situation along, right from the earliest recollections I have, it was Me the was the driving force. So I feel that I came naturally to being the Dom I am today.As I said I believe being a Dom comes from within, and I have seen those online ‘Doms’ who, if they met a true Dom, would crap! Too many people play at this, and the Internet is giving them a free reign at it, they don't understand how intense the emotions can be, even over the chat lines. They are playing with peoples emotions, their hearts and souls.
I don't believe in using abuse or humiliation, they are tools for bullies as far as I am concerned and a bully is not a true Dom most bullies, when you turn on them, will run. A true Dom will be able to instill His/Her will with out resorting to that, it is the love of a subbie that will make them want to submit and be loyal not the bully boy tactics. I know that there are those who will disagree, those that find being humiliated exciting well good luck to you, as I said these are My views and I make no apologies for them.
I have a temper, Oh boy do I have a temper, but it is something I try to control as much as possible, but I do get angry and when I do, people tend to run for cover. I will punish but never in anger, and try to make it fit the ‘crime’ anything from a spanking to a full, all out flogging with a strap, I expect total submission from My girl. I expect to use her for My pleasure, in what ever form that takes, from just sitting on a sofa cuddling to her being tied, whipped and fucked as I see fit. But in the taking of My pleasure I look to give pleasure as well.
Being a Dom does not mean not showing your love for another person, I like to love and be loved by my subbie, it is a wonderful feeling!
As with all relationships, there has to be an exchange, a giving as well as taking, being a Dom does not mean being selfish, in exchange for My girls submission and love, I return that love, and offer protection, guidance, discipline and order.
I have an iron will, and don't react well to being frustrated in what I want to do or achieve and once set on a course, I don't waver from it, but I am, conversely, patient with things that I cannot hurry along, and people that I come across in this life. I
have few people I call friend, not because I don't have friends, but because I am choosy whom I call friend. I will meet someone and instantly decide whether I like or dislike them, and My sixth sense’ has never let Me down, if I like you, you will get a loyal ‘friend’ that will back you through anything, if I don't like you, I wouldn't cross the road to piss on you if you were on fire.To be offered a girls submission is greatest honor a Dom can receive, and I treasure that gift with the love and respect it is due, My subbie, shydove, has made Me the proudest man on earth, and I try to repay her, by being her friend, lover, guide, and protector. Though I feel I fall very sort at times, I try My best. I know that there are some, online, that will ‘collar’ for a day and play with someone for that day and then move on to the next, I have no time for them. A collaring is like a marriage, not something to be entered in to lightly.
We are in a long distance relationship at the moment, though I am working towards getting to move home, and this in its self causes problems. I have made a couple of visits home and the pain of having to leave at the end of these visits is extreme. It rips us both apart, the term ‘sub drop’ is far too short for it. We
talk online every day, and then on the phone, and this helps, but is no substitute for being there. shydove, I know, loves Me totally and unconditionally, as I love her. We both feel as though we are one, one soul, one life, one being, to travel though this life and in to eternity together and that makes this enforced separation all the more difficult to bear.Personally, I have to know how My girl is feeling, no matter how it be. I’ll listen to the tears, and talk her through as best I can, reassuring her, guiding her. I’ll listen to the laughter and join in, I’ll have arguments and be the Dom or sit and be a friend as needed, as long as I know how My beloved feels. You cannot be a Dom, and not know or care how your subbie is
feeling, as I said it is a two-way thing. A Dom has to earn the respect of the subbie, it is not a God given right, and to think it is, is folly. You cannot expect to be given respect if you don't respect that person, Dom or Subbie.So, where do I see Myself going from here? Well I will move to be with My beloved shydove, we will be one. I will always be a Dom, and shydove will always be My subbie. I don't want a ‘harem’ all I want is the woman I love, at My side or kneeling before Me, and I will be happy and content.
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