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| After taking the crush quiz, lot of people hab been leaving comments in my gbook about crushes and heartbreaks. Everyone goes through this, so if you wanna share yours and ask for advice, juz fill the form below. When you write a comment about another story, remember to put the name. Here are some comments that we have recieve. :) Dreamer : Is there really someone out there for everyone? Comment Recieved: I think there is someone for everyone in this world, but the hard part is to find them. I mean, the world is a pretty big place, and the chance of meeting the right person is tough. I don't believe in one person for everyone though because that's craze! Imagine if your "one person" die, then wut? You live forever lonely? Naw, you can fall in love more than once as long as you find someone that matches ur personality and click well with you. - Dungie Kiwi's Girl : I've liked the same guy for over 5 years. We were best friends, and now-- non-existant to each other. It seems like as if every new guy I like reminds me of him, either he has the same smile, hair, eyes, etc. I can't get over this guy even if I try (and I have). He's a real jerk now, but it seems like that doesn't matter to me at all, because it's sort of like unrequited love. How can I just forget about him and move on? Comment Recieved: From what I see, you hab two choices. You can either forget him and move on, which I guess is not working for you, or you can talk to him and see if any part of his old self is left. You miss him becuz u believe that some part of his old self ( nice, funnie, etc ) is still there. Maybe after taking to him personally, you might relized that the person you once were best friend with had already die. He's not what he was, and you have to accept that and move on. People change and if you can't accept him for what he is now then find someone else that more your type. There are lots of guyz out there and you have lots of time in your to find him, so don't worry about it. In the meantime, cheer yourself up by hanging out with friends and close people. Maybe you might find Mr. Perfect among them! ;) - Dungie Baby Doll : How come I talk to all these guys and flirt with them and I've never had a boyfriend and I'm 15!!??? :( Comment Recieved: Maybe you needs to like hint strongly that your interested.... cuz sumtimes pple flirt wit each otha for fun... like a joke...? - Kiwi's Girl Comment Recieved: By the way Babydoll... 15 is still young so don't worry if you didn't have a boyfriend yet! At least you didn't have your heart broken... I had my first bf at 18... now I'm 20! I broke up 3 months ago and I'm not dead yet :P It was very tough... I cried for 2 months but now I'm glad of what I did :) For all of you... stay yourself... when you like someone try to be friends with him before falling in love so quickly... that way you'll be closer to him and if you guys are meant to be... you will eventually fall in eachother's arms. Good luck and remember... there is no age to have your first bf... do you see often people that starting dating at 15 and are still together at 30?? It's veryyyyyy rare :) - Samuelle Comment Recieved: Baby Doll, i'm 17 and i dunt got bf. so being 15 w. no bf is nuthin, otay? newayz it's sound to meeh u just want a bf and it doesnt matter who, " i talk to all these guys". If u jus want a bf to hab one than u too immature to get one. In my opinion u should wait till u reallie reallie like sumone. first bf is an important moment, dunt waste it on jus any guy. Goot luck man. - Yunna Rainy Day : What do you do if there is a guy that really likes u, but has the wrong idea on you. Like there is this guy that likes only my body but not who I am. What should I do. I only now want to be friends. But He encourages me to go out with him. Comment Recieved: Do NOT go out with him!!! If he only likes you for your body,then what is he worth? Like, if you gained 20 pounds, then would he stay with you? Most likely, no! But, if liked you for your personality, I would like you to go out with HIM! - Blue Eyes Rena : Me and my boyfriend have been together for over two years. My family hates him cause they say he is a bad person. I love him though. It's summer break and he is in another state now. He IMed me from there one day. Told me that girls are flirting with him. He didn't tell me what he did about it. The thing is he is so nice. But there is no way we can hang out together without looking behind eachothers back. Now one of my friends hooked me up with one of my friends. He is very cute, and nice. I'm afraid to tell my ex b/f. I don't know how to break it to him that I have fell in love again. Should I just back out on this idea with my friend and wait two more months to see my ex? Or should I just stay with him and break my exs (or b/fs) heart? Comment Recieved: Dearest Rena, It seems to me that if you cannot trust your ex with other girls because he moved away that you too should be moving on. I think you should stay with your new boyfriend. As for telling your ex, if you're not sure what to say just tell him that since he moved you should spend some time apart and see what happens. Love, LiL BaBii kK P.S. IF your parents think he is a bad person, maybe once you break up and are not blinded by his love you will see why your parents feel this way. Kay Kay : Well i'm going out with this guy matt and i really do like him , i havnt been going out with im for a long time but i really do like and hes moving away now, should i break up with him i know we'll never last forever or should i stay with him and make the best out of the time we will have together? Comment Recieved: Talk to him about it. Tell him that u like him a lot but since he's moving its not gonna be able to keep going. tell him u wanna stay in touch (and do!!) - Chickarita Depressed Young Lady : I love this handsome guy in my school but he dun even like me.And there's this guy who likes me but i hate him.help!!! Comment Recieved: If that guy doesnt like you, you should forget bout him. In reality is that the "handsome guy" you likes doesnt like you. There is nothing to do to make him like you so you should just forget about him, n that guy that likes you that you hates... you should tell him straight that you dont like him without hurting his feelings. - Dr. Love Patch : I really like this girl named Dana but she likes my best friend Justin. Justin likes her and its impossible for me to be very mad at either one. Comment Recieved: If dana likes justin n justin likes her, you shouldnt be doin nethng because truthfully she likes justin n doesnt like you so the only thing you can do now is to b happie for her. i kno its hard at times because u like this person,. but think if you actually told her.. would it make it better? will you hab a chance? if you really do think so then go for it... but really... you should leave them be because they like each other.. you shouldnt jeopardize that kind of relationship.... be happie for her n find a better grl. - Dr. Love LiL Lonely Girl : There was a guy i liked since i was 8 (in 3rd grade) and i had just turned 12. ill bet u that he liked me back too. in 5th grade i wasnt in his class anymore and i dont think we ever talked to each other. i still liked him though. in 6th grade, i still liked him, but there was a girl in my 5th grade class that was in his class and you could never see her without walking beside the guy i liked. i started to stop liking him since he already loved some one else, so i like someone else now. that girl seems to like him too. i wrote a poem about me and the guy i used to like having good times together and then seeing him again after a long time but in the arms of another girl. on the last day of elementary school i saw that girl hugging the guy i currently like and i saw him staring at me. i was so sad. i hate that girl now. stealing all the guys i like. i still like the guy she hugged, but what do i do about her? and the guy i like now is really popular and a lo! tta girls like him. should i tell him i like him and have a broken heart or should i just wait until jr high? also, how could i get him to like me? Comment Recieved: Charlotte : Well I've had this really big crush on a boy called richard I even once got the courage to ask him out he said no.I dont know what to do. Comment Recieved: Dear Charlotte: you were really, really, REALLY courageous to ask him out i would never be able to do that. i gotta big crush myself as you can see and if he just gave me a straight "no" it would first of all break my heart, but also how thoughtless of him to do that? no offense, but whats the use of loving someone so rude? at least he could have done something else to make it up to you and make you feel better... i mean, ask him how he would feel if that happened to him! - LiL LoNeLy GiRL Roseta : I dunno what to do, almost every boy likes me and how do I know which one is for me? Comment Recieved: AzN LoNeR : The guy i really like is popular. im not. theres a popular girl at school and everyone seems to like her (because of her appearance) everyone thinks that the guy i like likes her. me, i look ok but i have glasses and will soon get braces. is that the whole deal? i dont know if he likes me, but if he did and i knew i would be so happy. but would other people think i'm good enough for him? Comment Recieved: ViEtNaMeSe LuVuH : I am vietnamese. my grandma wants me to marry a vietnamese person. the person i love is chinese. what do i do? Comment Recieved: He<3RtBrOkEn : Hey everyone. I went to sleep at a friends house and she was telling me about this guy she likes who just came back from Boot Camp and was friends with her bro. He was spending the night at her house the same night as me. Well, I thought he was pretty cute and he was flirting with me. So I flirted back. Later on in the night he asked me if I would rub his back. So I did! We were just talking and he said he tried to act all confident around me even though he really wasn't. I felt like everything was right in the world. But then he said he would ask me out...if only I wasn't two years younger than him. My heart was broken! My friend got mad and told her Dad I wasn't hanging with her and I wasn't allowed to talk to the boy, Donnie, for the rest of the night. The next day I didn't get to say goodbye. I'd really like to talk to him, especially about going out with me. I haven't seen him since and I miss him so much. My friend and her mom are mad at me but I don' t care. I just need to see Donnie again! What should I do??? Please help. Comment Recieved: He<3RtBrOkEn, some people are married and 10 years of age apart! - Roseta Strawberry : How do people know if they r for that person? Comment Recieved: Jessy : I've been falling for someone for the longest time. He finally noticed me and we got togehter. Two days later I hear he doesn't like me. So he calls me up and we talk. In a low voice he says, "I'm blank on the relationship". So he broke up with me. I don't know how to deal with this. Not only did I put his name everywhere, but I really loved him... he told me on the phone he loved me back, but now he says he liked me. I don't know how to get over this without acting like myself. What do I do? Please help me. Comment Recieved: ??Confused Kid?? : Ive really like this guy in my class ever since 4th grade, when he came to my school( im going to gr. 6 in september) and from grades 6-8 at my scool and i REALLY want to ask him out to the dance but i dont know how to. if he says No ill be heartbroken, and if he goes out with someone else ill still be heartbroken. PLEASE HELP ME!!! Comment Recieved: Okay, just think about this for a moment, alright? If you don't ask him out, what will you gain? Yes, you will be safe from heartbreak... sort of. BUT if he does go with another gurl, then you will be heartbroken too. Because if you don't ask him, you won't get him. If you DO ask him, yes he might say no, but he might say YES. If u decide not to there is no chance of him saying yes. :-) Just something to think about. - Summer Help : My ex is going out with a girl that is real snotty. It's real sicking, how can I concentrate? Comment Recieved: |
