My Wish For You

Real love soars softly, gentle on the wings of a dove - not on the talons of a bird of prey grasping, clawing....

Real love does not claim possession or ownership of another - it is the offer of mutual sharing, honesty, respect and trust....

Real love does not shout its declaration to the world - it exists in private in the knowing smile and quiet whisper between two people....

Real love does not demand constant attention and exclusivity - it allows each to pursue their passions in life and have time for other people and things....

Real love blossoms and matures slowly - it is secure......there is no agenda......or rush....

Real love looks through the eyes of the soul - not watchfully through the eyes of a predator....

Real love wraps its arms around you slowly in a tender holding - it does not clutch, cling or constrain....

Real love allows, promotes and celebrates difference - it does not demand sameness....

Real love does not control, threaten or manipulate through tears or anger - it learns to talk through conflict and express wishes....

Real love does not need to seek approval from the other - it is secure and HAS approval from the other....

Real love encourages achievement of their best by the other through mutual support - it does not demand perfection....

Real love is mutually unselfish - its focus is upon meeting the needs of the other rather than of self....

Real love listens while the other talks to achieve understanding and closeness....



My wish for you is that when you have found real love, you have the wisdom to not let it slip away.........

Seek_r

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