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In the middle of November, I can't remember the exact date, ( ... ), a Department Manager at my store, and I made a bet on what sales would be, and then we went and looked it up. I "won" the bet, being closer with my bet than she. She asked me what I wanted, and I said "nothing at this time, but maybe a pop sometime" to which she replied something like it was worth more than that. I didn't pay any attention at that time to what she said, but it seems to have meant more now. Anyway, after that day, she kept bringing up the bet, and I don't know when she started saying it, but she kept saying "I will swallow anything". This went on for about two weeks. I know that I should have explained that comment was not appropriate, but she had been careful that nobody else was around when she said it, so I thought it was no big deal.

My marriage has been struggling for awhile, and I had spoken with ( ... ) about some of my struggles. She knew that I was frustrated with my relationship, and that I did not know what was going to happen there. I spoke with her about these things because I knew she was struggling with a relationship, recently moving out of her ex-boyfriend's house into her own apartment.

On Saturday, December 2, ( ... ) and I were both scheduled to work until close. I almost always keep another employee with me after I close the store, so I am not in the store alone. That night ( ... ) offered to stay, as she stated "I need the money". While she was counting down the registers, at the front of the store. All of the lights were turned off except a small light in the office and one over the register. Earlier that day, while loading a BBQ grill, I had gotten my shirt really dirty, and had changed into another shirt that was in the office. While she was down front, I had proceeded to change my shirt. She came in the office while I had my shirt off. At this point, she asked if I wanted her to take her shirt off. I said "yeah right" or something like that. She asked again if I wanted her to take her shirt off. I said "do whatever you want". At that point she took her shirt off. Then she said something like "come on" kind of daring me, so I undid my pants and dropped them. At that point she came over and rubbed her chest against mine, and took her bra off. She then reached into my underpants, and I pushed them down. At some point, she had also dropped her pants, but kept her underpants on. She then bent over and started to perform oral sex, and I gently stopped her. I sat down in a chair, trying to figure out what was going on, when she came over and pulled my head to her chest. I fondled her breasts, and she then kneeled down and once again tried to perform oral sex. I once again stopped her. At that point, I handed her her bra, and then her shirt. She also pulled up my clothing.

I then said something about "I can't believe what I just did". I don't remember exactly what was said, but at one point she said something about how frustrated she was, meaning sexually. We both agreed that we could not tell anyone, and that was how it was left that night. We closed the store, and went our separate ways, except we ended up seeing each other again in the grocery store parking lot after I took the deposit to the bank. She once again stated how sexually frustrated she was. Other things were said, but I don't remember what.

The next few days while working together, very little was said between us, except what was necessary for work. On Monday, December 4, she stopped me outside the back door of the store as I was going home, and asked me if I felt guilty. I stated that I was so ashamed of myself that I couldn't handle it. She stated that she was also feeling guilty, and wanted to talk. I stated that I couldn't talk, that I needed to work things out in my head.

On Thursday December 7, I told my wife what I had done. I felt this was the proper thing to do. Sometime during the weekend, after ( ... ) found out that I had told my wife, she told her ex-boyfriend, and that is where the real trouble started. The next day, he called me at home, stating that he could never forgive me, but would not hold what happened against me. I assumed that the entire story had been told, because that is what she told me. The next night, I got a call at home from ( ... ) stating that I needed to call her ex-boyfriend right away. I did, and he screamed and yelled at me over the phone, saying he punched a dent in his pickup wishing it was my face, and that "If murder wasn't illegal, you would be dead". I took him seriously, and was really scared for myself and my family that night. The next day, I was told by ( ... ) that she had cooled him off, but that he had stormed into the store and spoke with ( ... ) to get ( ... )'s home phone number.

Two nights later, the ex-boyfriend called me at home to say that he wanted me to find another job. I told him that was considering that. He told me that he was encouraging her to do the same.

During the next couple weeks, I was repeatedly called at home by the ex-boyfriend telling me to call ( ... ), and called by ( ... ) asking me to call the ex-boyfriend. I responded for awhile, but then decided that I was not going to call anymore, that she was trying to keep something going that I did not want to, playing off each other at my expense. At the store, I encouraged her to find a friend to talk to, and that I could not be that friend. She continues to send e-mails, to which I do not reply, as I have not wanted to encourage her. I have copies of all of the e-mails that she has sent.

We have treated each other well at the store, working professionally and cordially. She has asked numerous times if I want her to quit, which I reply that it is not necessary, that we can work together, but that I cannot be her friend to help her through the trouble with her ex-boyfriend.

She has repeatedly said that I did not ask her to perform this act, that it was not a "boss, employee" thing. I believe that if asked, that she would say that still.

The fact is that I have treated her with nothing but professional courtesy since this happened, but she and her ex-boyfriend has continued to harass me at home, threaten my job repeatedly, threaten my life, and caused undo pressure on my wife and family amplifying what was already there. I believe that this was unnecessary and unwarranted, and wish for it to stop.

That is why I told you, ( ... ), trying to contact you on Saturday when the ex-boyfriend called me and stated that I had two weeks to find another job and that at the end of two weeks he was calling the home office. I am not trying to hide anything, and have been honest about what was said in this letter. I believe that myself and my family have been and continue to be harassed, and wish it to stop. ( ... ) and I have continued to work together, and I expect that to continue, but the phone calls and other communication needs to stop. No more threatening e-mails and visits to the store by the ex-boyfriend except as a customer.