KINKY QUESTIONAIRE:

If you wish to participate here is what you do. This is a highlight and colorize questionaire. This will help you visualize where you are in the world of kink. Copy and paste this questionaire into an email or word program with color options. The color is to help you visualize how far you have come.
I think many of you will be surprised at the color change. Take your time. It is a LONG list.

RED means you have never done this before in your life!

GREEN means you have engaged in this kind of play before.

Here is an example:
Age play - Anal sex


This is for KINK aspects ONLY. so, if you have been made to wear a catheter because of childbirth.. that is not kink!

Abrasion - Age play - Anal sex - Anal plugs (small) - Anal plugs (large) - Anal plug (public, under clothes) - Animal roles - Arm & leg sleeves (armbinders) - Aromas - Asphyxiation - Auctioned for charity - Ball stretching - Bathroom use control - Beastiality - Beating (soft) - Beating (hard) - Blindfolds - Being serviced (sexual) - Being bitten - Boot worship - Bondage (light) - Bondage (heavy) - Bondage (multi-day) - Bondage (public, under clothing) - Branding - Breast/chest bondage - Breast whipping - Breath control - Brown showers (scat) - Bruises - Cages (locked inside of) - Caning - Castration fantasy - Catheterization - Cattle prod (electrical toy) - Cells - Closets (locked inside of) - Chains - Chamber-pot use - Chastity belts (short term) - Chastity belts (multi-day) - Chauffeuring (driving) - Choking - Chores (domestic service) - Clothespins - Cock rings/straps - Cock worship - Collars (worn in private) - Collars (worn in public) - Competitions (with other Subs) - Corsets (wearing casually) - Corsets (trained waist reduction) - Cross-dressing - Cuffs (leather) - Cuffs (metal) - Cutting - Diapers (wearing) - Diapers (wetting) - Diapers (soiling) - Dilation Dildoes - Double penetration - Electricity - Enemas (for cleansing) - Enemas (retention/punishment) - Enforced chastity - Erotic dance (for audience) - Examinations (physical) - Exercise (forced/required) - Exhibitionism (friends) - possible Exhibitionism (strangers) - actual exhibitionism (strangers) - Eye contact restrictions - Face slapping - Fantasy abandonment - Fantasy rape - Fantasy gang-rape - Fear (being scared) - Fisting (anal) - Fisting (vaginal) - Flame play - Following orders - Food play (cucumbers, sorbet...) - Foot worship - Forced bedwetting - Forced dressing - Forced eating - Forced homosexuality - Forced heterosexuality - Forced masturbation - Forced nudity (private) - Forced nudity (around others) - Forced servitude - Forced smoking - Full head hoods - Gags (cloth) - Gags (inflatable) - Gags (phallic) - Gags (rubber) - Gags (tape) - Gas masks - Gates of Hell (male) - Genital sex - Given away to another Dom (temp) - Given away to another Dom (perm) - Goldenshowers - Gun play - Hairbrush spankings - Hair pulling - Hand jobs (giving) - Hand jobs (receiving) - Harems (serving w/other subs) - Harnessing (leather) - Harnessing (rope) - Having food chosen for you - Having clothing chosen for you - Head (give fellatio/cunnilingus) - Head (recv fellatio/cunnilingus) - High heel wearing - High heel worship - Homage with tongue (non-sexual) - Hoods - Hot oils (on genitals) - Hot waxing - Housework (doing) - Human puppy dog - Humiliation (private) - Humiliation (public) - Hypnotism - Ice cubes - Immobilization - Infantilism - Initiation rites - Injections - Intricate (Japanese) rope bondage - Interrogations - Kidnaping - Kneeling - Knife play - Leather clothing - Leather restraints - Lectures for misbehavior - Licking (non-sexual) - Lingerie (wearing) - Manacles & Irons - manicures (giving) - Massage (giving) - Massage (receiving) - Medical scenes - Modeling for erotic photos - More than one partner at once - Mouth bits - Mummification - Name change (for scene) - Name change (legal, permanent) - Nipple clamps - Nipple rings (piercings) - Nipple play/"torture" - Nipple weights - Oral/anal play (rimming) - Over-the-knee spanking - Orgasm denial - Orgasm control Outdoor scenes - Outdoor sex - Pain (mild) - Pain (medium) - Pain (severe) - Persona training (in scene) - Personality modification (RL) - Phone sex (serving Dom) - Phone sex (serving Dom's friends) - Phone sex (commercial provider) - Piercing (temporary, play-pierce) - Piercing (permanent) - Plastic surgery - Prison scenes - Prostitution (public pretense) - Prostitution (actual) - Pony slave - Public exposure - Punishment Scene - Pussy/cock whipping - Pussy worship - Riding crops - Riding the "horse" (crotch torture) - Rituals - Religious scenes - Restrictive rules on behavior - Rubber/latex clothing - Rope body harness - Saran wrapping - Scarification - Scratching (getting) - Scratching (giving) - Sensory deprivation - Serving - Serving as art - Serving as ashtray - Serving as furniture - Serving as a maid - Serving as toilet (urine) - Serving as toilet (feces) - Serving as waitress/waiter - Serving orally (sexual) - Serving other doms (supervised) - Serving other doms (unsupervised) - Sexual deprivation (short term) - Sexual deprivation (long term) - Shaving (body hair) - Shaving (genital hair) - Shaving (head hair) - Skinny-dipping - Sleep deprivation - Sleepsacks - Slutty clothing (private) - Slutty clothing (public) - Spandex clothing - Spanking - Speech restrictions (when, what) - Speculums (Anal) - Speculums (vaginal) - Spitting - Spreader bars - Standing in corner - Stocks - Straight jackets - Strap-on-dildos (sucking on) - Strap-on-dildos (penetrated by) - Strap-on-dildos (wearing) Strapping (full body beating) - Suspension (upright) - Suspension (inverted) Suspension (horizontal) - Supplying new partner for Dom - Swallowing feces - Swallowing semen - Swallowing urine - Swapping (with one other couple) - Swinging (multiple couples) - Tampon Training (in ass) - Tattooing - Teasing - TENS Unit (electrical toy) - Thumbcuffs - Tickling - Triple penetration - Urethral humbcuffs (metal) - Sounds (metal rods) - Uniforms - Including others - Vaginal dildo - Verbal humiliation - Vibrator on genitals - Violet Wand (electrical toy) - Voyeurism (watching others) - Voyeurism (your Dom w/others) - Video (watching others) - Video (recordings of you) - Water torture - Waxing (hair removal) - Wearing symbolic jewelry - Weight gain (forced) - Weight loss (forced) - Whipping - Wooden paddles - Wrestling