M is for Mitzvot - Commandments/Connections. Notice I said Commandments/Connections. In Hebrew all words are based on shorashim, roots. The root for mitzvah, tzaveh, carries the meaning commandment, but also joining, that is, forming connection. It makes sense: a command doesn't work if it doesn't connect with the person being commanded, eh? We Ohabei Chayyim look at mitzvot as opportunities to connect with our Yedid, our Beloved, G-d. To not do a mitzvah, or to transgress a mitzvah, is to miss the choice to draw closed to our Yedid - we miss a chance to show how we feel about the One Who Loves Us for Ourselves Always.

Some Jews emphasize Yirat HaShem, Fear OF G-d, what punishment G-d might bring for sins. We are more concerned with Fear FOR G-d - how does G-d feel when we behave in ways that are beneath us? Why insult and hurt the One Who loves us just as we are?

So when we do mitzvot, which are important? Whichever presents itself at the moment! We don't distinguish between lesser or greater, or Torahitic and Rabbinic - they are all paths of avodah, of loving service when properly understood and performed with proper intent. A thoughtful choice, carefully executed with proper heart is a most beautiful prayer - a wonderful thank You to G-d.

And even if the intent sometimes lacks, performance still raises up the holiness of the World! We believe each person takes her or his learning and uniquely acts with good intention - G-d knows the intent and G-d's love is eternal - "ki le-olam chasdo." For us, walking our talk is how we say "I Love You" to the Others in our lives. To do this requires us to be open about who we are.