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THINGS MEN SAID WHEN I INTERVIEWED THEM!

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1. WHAT DO MEN HATE?

There are many harmless ways in which even gorgeous women can scare men and love away early. Remember the wisdom in the fishing phrase, "frightened fish can’t be caught." If a man doesn’t call back or suddenly disappears, the answer is simple, "you scared him away." Here’s a checklist of some of the things that are huge turnoffs to men. Make sure you keep these to a minimum, especially if you really like the man and it is early in the game.

 

THE 5 SENSES: THE BAD FIRST IMPRESSION

- Be a heavy smoker.

- Wear too much make-up.

- Wear too much jewelry.

- Have an unappealing or too heavy perfume.

- Have poor hygiene, bad breath or body odor.

- Look too thin or anorexic.

- Have an irritating sounding voice.

- Walk like a man.

PERSONALITY QUIRKS: WHEN YOU'RE TOO STRANGE

- Have a weird sense of humor or laugh at the wrong time.

- Wear bizarre clothes.

- Be too hyper, antsy or emotionally high-strung.

- Be a know-it-all.

- Stare at people too long.

BIG MOUTH: WHEN YOU TALK YOUR WAY OUT OF LOVE

- Gossip excessively.

- Tell long uninterrupted stories.

- Jump to conclusions.

- Refer to past lovers.

- Cuss or get angry in public.

- Be loud in public.

- Bring up unpleasant topics.

- Be highly opinionated or voice a strong prejudice.

- Talk too much and never listen.

- Express with wild gestures.

- Ask too many questions that make him feel uncomfortable.

- Interrupt when he’s talking.

- Get into arguments quickly and easily .

A BAD HEART: WHEN YOU SOUR HIS EMOTIONS

- Tell him that he's wrong.

- Be sarcastic, cynical or a smart-ass.

- Treat men like horny bastard- Criticize others.

- Complain too often.- Be too serious, too intellectual, or too sophisticated.

- Fail to compliment a man.

- Don’t laugh at his humor or on the other hand be too silly.

- Be too depressed or sad.

- Don’t value a man’s opinion.

- Roll your eyes back with disapproval of harmless male behaviors.

LIFESTYLE: WHEN LIVING WITH YOU LOOKS LIKE A BIG HASSLE

- Be a neat freak .

- Own too many pets especially cats.

- Hate dogs.

- Be too busy all the time.

- Live like a slob or live in a dump.

- Be totally insensitive to his love for sports.

- Have too "girly" tastes in your home decor.

- Listen to romantic music all day long.

THE DATING GAME: WHEN YOU DON’T PASS THE AUDITION

- Be rude to waiters and waitresses.

- Have bad table manners.

- Create an embarrassing scene in public.

- Order the most expensive dinner entree like lobster.

- Forget to say "please" and "thank you".

- Spend too much time in the ladies room.

- Talk too long to people on your cell phone when out on a date.

- Come across as hard-to-please.

- Talk about all the other things going on while on a date.

- Be a bad kisser.

 

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2. WHAT DO MEN LIKE?

THE PERFECT WOMAN


- is smart, but not smarter than the guy. They feel threatened easily.

- is good-looking (meaning cute but not necessarily beautiful).

- is a good listener.

- is goofy without looking like a clown.

- is sexy without being vulgar.

- doesn't constantly talk about herself.

- can laugh at a guy's jokes.

- is not selfish.

- acts like a lady and does not use bad language.

- is confident.

- calmly deals with her problems without complaining.

- loves watching sport.

- is a little weaker than her man.

- never criticizes other people. In brief, she's not a bitch.

- doesn't talk or laugh too loud. God spare our ears!

- is not jealous when her man glances at another girl.

- is sweet and innocent.

- is modest.

- doesn't need to be the center of everybody's attention.

- is low-maintenance.

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