Courting in Asgard City
- Friendship: This is before courtings and causal.. at most allowed a hug.. no kissing of any type except to the hand, finally curtsying and bowing is considered a polite jesture to a lord or a lady and should be done for royals. to meet a Queen in your home as a male one should greet her with a kiss to her ring. Once a member during the ceremony that is also a kiss to the ring then stand up.
- Sometimes playful rough housing, picking on each other, tossing grapes or playfully swatting at each other's arm or if a man on the chest, joking around and such too are all alright. But nothing more.
- Courtship is as follows as way to say. I like you and and wish to get to know you more. It is Not meaning you are about to marry.. but that you are courting or dating until the time you are asked the question. This involves the following.. holding hands, arm in arm, hugs, man in back to front being held (risky but is somewhat acceptable), and kotc.. perhaps a gesture of a slight grace to the face.. but not much more.
- At no time are you to lie down with a man or a woman.. sitting is acceptable.
- Here to have to be 1 month of engagement before marriage.. that is 3 months v/t.
- Bethroval: is when you give or ask the question will you marry me. . it can happen anytime during courtship.. back then you were considered married. but not yet.. meaning this was the time to back out.. still any thing done at this time other than what was done in courtship I rather it be done in pm. and not out loud .. one must be discreet.
- Finally Marriage is as follows.: the time you say I do.. in front of me or a man of the cloth. during this time.. anything goes .. but what is public must be acceptable for even children to see. Meaning no petting in public and such.
- One more thing... There are times that a man or woman would need a bit more.. should it be of medical attention or such.. tonight what Phoenix did was try to help her beau with his head.. no servant was here to help so she had to.. sometimes medical requires seeing more than a lady or man should see.. but it is to save a life.. tonight when Bolivar was hurt.. and naked .. I turned myself and the child away so that we would not see him.. unless I was healing him I would not do this.
- Finally.. I aske people not to draw conclusions before asking .. AND TO NEVER call a person names.
- Now that that is settled what you do behind closed doors is your business however what you do in public should be as above.
- BUT don't make mention what happened behind those closed doors to others publically as this also violates the courtship rules.
